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Self-sufficiency is a scare tactic

I was nineteen years old when I had my first child. After my family had invested money, time, and other resources into me attending private school all of my life, coming home after my freshman year of college pregnant was not cool. It was then that I really began my practice of self-sufficiency. Fine. Y’all don’t want me to have this baby? Cool. I’ll do it by myself.

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I write to reflect on & learn how to live more authentically, slowly, & intentionally in a culture that dares you to go against the grain.

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I write to reflect on & learn how to live more authentically, slowly, & intentionally in a culture that dares you to go against the grain.

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